Children going hungry is no joke.

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Do you think there is humor in this picture and its caption?  If you do then go tell the joke to Hamzah Khan, Daniel Pelka and Jeffrey Baldwin.

This picture was going around Facebook with comments and captions as if it was funny.  The picture upset me because I know for some kids this is exactly how they live their lives, wondering if they are going to have enough to eat or is mommy going to have a new dress, shoes and dinner out with friends again.  There are too many children at my children’s school that are lucky if they have a jam sandwich for lunch.  The school brings snacks around to the classes because there are many children who simply don’t have food, or very little.  Too many times parents have talked about all the cool stuff they bought themselves on the 20^th, but their kids shoes don’t fit, their clothing don’t fit and they don’t get enough to eat.  Why because their parent or parents put themselves first.

 I remember one Mom who was telling people about what she feeds her child.  All she ever gave the kid was macaroni and cheese from the box.  She would boil the noodles, drain and put the cheese mix in and stir.  No milk or butter, nothing but the noodles, powder and whatever water was still on the noodles.  The child was in daycare.  The daycare noticed that the child would eat everything it could get its hands on, why because it was literally starving.  However the mom was always showing off her new shoes, jewellery, clothing, makeup, or talking about where she went out for dinner, ordered in.  She liked to eat pizza, stake and other things and did not bother to buy enough for her child.  The kid could eat mac and cheese and watch her eat steak.

Another family simply did not feed the kids.  They would get to eat if their mom was there.  The mom would go to work, her girlfriend would kick the kids out of the house.  The three girls were not allowed back into the house until the mom came home.  So they were outside, rain or shine all day, no food.  They were not even allowed in to go bathroom.  We started buying lots of hotdogs and spent most of the summer feeding the three girls at lunch once we found out what was going on.  One night the family moved out.  Suddenly they were gone.  Some of the girls toys were still in our back yard.  Turns out someone reported them for abuse and instead of feeding the kids and caring for them they decided to move.  We were just about to report them ourselves because we had finally got confirmation that the girls were locked out and not being fed. 

Child hunger is real.  For some it is simply because there is not enough money to buy a lot of food.  But for many the truth is, mom did spend the money on club clothing instead of food for the kid.  There are children going hungry every single day, and it is abuse.  So for all the people who found the above image funny here are three pictures with links that prove it is not funny.  Three children starved to death.  I did a quick Google search and these were the first three I saw.  I am sure there are many many more but I could not stomach looking at anymore children starved to death but their family.   So look into the faces of these three children and tell me that the above photo is still funny too you.  Stop abuse, report abuse, and notice which kids are going hungry. 

Meet Hamzah Khan his mom starved him to death, watched him died and ordered pizza.  Four-year-old'smummified body was resting next to teddy bear in his mother's house whendiscovered by police in Bradford. 

Meet Daniel Pelka.  He was starved and beaten for months by his so called mother and her boyfriend before he died in March 2012. Starved boy Daniel Pelka 'invisible' to professionals

Meet Jeffrey Baldwin. Jeffrey Baldwin was placed in the care of the grandparent who starved him to death.  Jeffrey was locked in his room, forced to mop up his own urine and feces and so severely starved that at the end of his life he couldn't lift his own head.    Boy starved to death wanted to be Superman, inquest hears.

So the next time you see a something about a child going without food think about these three boys before you laugh.  If you think a child is in need of help, or that a caregiver is not taking care of a child report it.  Maybe you could save a life, instead of having a laugh.  Child abuse is real.  Children going hungry is real.  Don't accept it, don't turn a blind eye, and really look at the children around you and see if there is a Jeffrey, Daniel or Hamzah you could save!

Children are not sex partners

I am sick and disgusted by humanity. No not everyone, or an individual but actual humanity. Why because for some sick reason people still think it is ok to have sex with children, even killing them for their sexual pleasure. I was angry about the baby that was raped and killed by the damage and now there have been news stories of an 8 year old and a 13year old girl who was “married” and then died because of the damage done by her husband having sex with her. And these are just the stories that made it into the news. Why are there not huge protests over this? How come people will rise to arms over same sex marriage but not little girls being forced to marry? Why don’t I see the people protesting the rape of children, or the marriage of little girls.

What about the people, the girls family, that was just fine with letting this man marring her and using her for sex! They let it happen, they thought it was acceptable. And so did the people who went to the wedding, the law and religious leaders were okay with it as well. It is not just the man who did it, but the people who think letting adult men have child brides is perfectly normal. That is what we are fighting against, not just the person who raped and killed the girl but all the people who let it happen, knowing she was to be used for his sexual pleasure. Children should be children playing and enjoying life, not sex objects or sex partners.

Oh and don’t think this crap only happens in other countries, by other people. The baby that was raped, it was in the USA. There have been child brides in every country, in every religion because it is not a cultural or religious issue, no it is the fact little girls are being used for sex because someone wants to and they will find a way. How many “cults” have child brides? How many legal marriages to children happen around the world? Why do so many people visit Taiwan, Amsterdam and other countries where they can have sex with children – child prostitution is a huge industry. 105 kids were rescued from a child prostitution ring in the US this year.  Why is it that many children are raped in their own homes by family or friends of the family? I am also sick of people calling it sexual abuse instead of rape. It is rape and it is abuse. 

So for all those people who are willing to make a stink over same sex marriage or a million other things I want to see you making a stink over this. I want to see you marching in protest, holding signs the show you believe that sex with children (even if the guy is married to the child) is morally, biologically and emotionally wrong, heck I would be holding a sign right beside you. 

But wait, I forgot, some of the very people holding up signs against just about everything are the same people trying to get the age of consent lowered.  Apparently it is not okay for consenting adults to be in a relationship, but it is perfectly fine for some guy to marry a child.  A child that is not  legally able to give consent, nor would they want to give consent if they understood what was going to happen to them.  So it is the adults in their lives, the ones who are supposed to protect them that are handing them over to a pedophile.  In some places it is legal to have sex with 12 year olds, and people are trying to get that lower! What is wrong with people!